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7 Things You Should Never Say to Someone Undergoing IVF

Ka itiye ku jarimbe nyo wadi moko ma tiyo ku in vitro fertilization (IVF) pi nyodo, Icopo nyutho kony peri. Ma kadhu 2% pa awiya ma junywolu i ngom mi Amerika junyolu gi ku IVF, yore ma mitu peko mi kum man mi cwiny. Ento umaku iwac lembe moko ma cuku cwiny man ma nyuthu kisa pa ngati ne. Eni ubetimere? 

Mego mapol i kind dhanu ma timo ang’o ma umitu gitim giwacu nia kony ma ginwangu kud i kind dhanu migi kare moko epe ku gin ma gitiye ka wok kud i iye. 

“Anwangu niya kadi nang dhanu pol kare gibedo ku paru maber, Ento kare ku kare gingeyo ngo lembe maber mi wacu. Man kadi nangu wabedu ka tembo ni nyolo ic, “Dhanu manok ma wangeyo ma gimiyo iwa ‘juk’ ku paru gi ketho cwinya lith,” owacu min ot moko i WTE Community.

The lembe madwong utiye ma copo ketho juru ot copo yenyo yath mi IVF, ikinde: Lembe mi yot kum, oro, two ma wok kud i thek Nyo two moko ma mako gene Dhanu mapol ma gitimo IVF juweco igi niya eni kende re ma copo bedu ku awiya ma kum gi yot. 

Ka wakwanu lembe ma malu eni zo Kae utiye wec moko ma dhanu mi WTE giwinjo ka gitimo IVF. Pirango ma wec eni copo bedu marac? Man ango ma umitu juyer man jutim kakare? 

  • IVF copo bedu lembe ma tero kare malac ni juru ot.   Penjo juru ot penji calu, “Itiye ku ic?” nyo “Icopo ngo ni gamo nyathin?”  
  • Ento, nyuth kony peri iyore moku ci ma gimito.  Pol kare, juru ot ma gibetimo IVF mitu ngati moku ma bikonyo gi. Nyo jarimbe nyo wadi peri moko ma utiye keca pi winjo. Piny maber uloyu ma icopo timu ubedo ni lubu paru migi man ni weku gi ngeyo niya ibecidho igi kadi ango ma timere.  

1. “Bed moth kende.”

“Aparu piny ma pire tek ira utiye, ‘Bed moth, lembe zo bibedo maber.’ Angeyo nia dhanu mapol gitiye ku paru maber, ento IVF epe piny ma icopo ‘ling’ kende. Lembe madwong utiye i iye. “Kadi bed ni yath, rombo, kuru, gen, lworo, nyo winjo lembe ma weko awinjo ka atimo piny moko marac pi lworo — Melissa Per8A.”

“‘Kwany yom kende — ebitimere kani ibedo ku lworo manok!’ (Abewecu… ic man ic podi umitu girombo pi nwangu ic.) Man watiye ku peku mi yot kum, ci yom cwiny epe.)” — Ninap38

“Nyara para uwacu ira nia abed moth man awek koma utim ango ma umitu etim… Enen kamaleng niya koma epe “Tim gin ma umitu itim.’ Man an awinjo nya atie dhaku manok pi wec eni.”

“Adi nya podi itiye ku yore moku!” Eyo, watiye kudu, ento lembe eni nyayu can. Bei pare tek. Man pol kare ebedo tek ni nyang ikum paru man kum. — mmoore2486

2. “Itiye ku peko mi nyodo pilembe…”

“Itemo matek ungo,” ingey gonyo. Wacopo timo ngo pima mukende. (Pi the lembe mi yot kum) embryo acel ma jukutho udong, ma etiye ku 30 percent kende mi kadhu kud i iye.

“Atiye ku wadi tic. (Pregnant) nga ma uwacu ira direct IVF eca ubedu ber ira ngo kum ‘awinjo wer marac’ man ‘amadho caffeine madwong’… man ‘abedo ngo ku cam maber.’” — Prik Li Panda

3. “Pirango ma igamu ngo?”

“Abedo ngo ikum gamo nyathin. Man amito ni agam nyathin moko ceng moko. Ento wacu lembe meno konyowa ngo nyanok de. Pien abedo ku ret adek. Man amito adok ic kendu.

“Calu min ot ma timo lembe marac, Amito amiyi iri tam nia kud iwec lembe ma kumeno. Nindu moko ebi timere. Kud ipar,’ ‘Ibe nwango nyathin kawoni,’ man ‘Ibedo ka paru pi gamo nyathin?'” I lembe para, nangu amito ngo awinj ango ma dhanu mukende paru kudu ‘Yore’ man ka ayabu cwinya igi Amito giwinj kende…” — FirstTimeMom10000

4. “Ibedo nyathin!”

“Itiye nyathin. Podi itiye ku sawa madwong.” Icopo bedu ku IVF pi oro madwong. Mapodi juyero iri nya iwek “Man de gibedu ma ling ikum yath para wang mir acel kum nangu abedo nyathin man edaru timo marac.”

5. “Ibedo ku ic?”

“’Ibedo ku ic?’ Ubedo calu genogen. Atimo IVF pi oro 2 man atimo transfer mi ic 7. Aryo ikin gi ubedo ‘maber’ ento uthum i dwi mir aryo. Kinde ma walar wayero nia watiye ku ic ku IVF, umego para uwacu, “Wu ario wucopo weko bedo ku can kawoni?”…. Wabedo ku ret mi ic i yenga 20, man elubo ku loko ic mange i yenga mir 14, waweko ngo lembe eni…” — TAus89.

6. “Foyo foc!”

“‘Foyo!’ Ango? IVF utiye ku rwom maber pa 60% ka lembe zo utime maber. Man dhanu mapol umitu gitim wang mapol. Angeyu nia dhanu ma weco kumeno gilar gitimo ngo IVF con, ento paru ma rac ma nia IVF tiyo kare ku kare uai kani? — Eni andha.

“Wayero ngo ni ngati moko ci. Watimo ang’o ka watimo IVF? Pien etiye lembe ma nya wang ma wacopo weco pire… Ento adwogi marac uloyu ma anwango kud ibang juru ot para ubedu ‘Eni ber mandha!!’ Kinde ma wabewecu igi ikum yath mwa mi IVF, lembe ma juweco ikumgi ubedu ka temo ni konyowa ento ubedu ikum paru mwa. Wapodho i coko tong’o wang aryo. man kawoni gibe nwangu yath manyen mi yath Ku gen pa adwogi maber, ee, ber nia diru eni utiye, man ee, cwinywa yom ni bedo ku juru ot. Ento timo eni ber ungo. “Paro maber epe kare ku kare…” — shells732

“I ajikine wamoko tam mi wecu kud ju pacu mwa ikum IVF. Man anwangu lagam ma “Ebedo lembe ma nyangu dhanu!!!” Ewinjiri calu waweko can ma wawok kud i iye nituc i kabedu eni. Ber nia diru eni utiye. Ento wan wayero ngo yo eni wan giwa. Man kare mukende ebedo ber ni rombu ku dhanu ma gibe kadhu kud i lembe eni man ni nwangu lagam: “Angeyo nya ebedo tek iri. Abibedo ku gen ikum peri kare ku kare. Man atiye kany kare ku kare kan imito piny moko — ku ciro-kuru22.

“I ngei timo embryo ma rwinyo man egg ma rwinyo… ‘Kadi nya ibedo ku tong madwong’ nyang ikum peko pa yub ne. Man ma pire tek uloyu, remu ma nwang i saa eca Man yeny mi can ikum gin ma ubetimere kawoni. — Baby Magic IVF.

7. “Igeno nia eni re ma imito?”

“’Awia gibedo peko. Imito gi kendu ngo,’ man ‘Ibi nyang kani ibe nwango nyathin,’ nyo ‘Kare ma romo?’ Abedo ku ret adek man BFN [marac] acel ma podi anwango ngo ic eni.

“Ka iparu niya etung, kur nitundu ic!” Man eni ka acopo nwangu ic. Dong kud wawec ikum lembe eni kendu.” — kb012345

“Igeno nia imito piny eni? Kur manok kende. (Enyutho cinge ikum nyathin migi. Eyo, amito nyathin andha.) Ka epe, nangu atimo ngo IVF.” — Ninnap 38

“Kadi epe, Itiye ku awiya ario mukende.

Gin ango ma min ot ma gibetimo IVF mitu giwinj

Kadi bende dhanu ceke gitiye ku paru maber Ento ngeyo ango ma umitu iwac ni ngati moko ma ubekadhu kud i peko mi nyodo calu IVF copo bedu tek. Mapire tek tek podi inwango ngo lembe ma kumeno con. Gin ma min ot mitu i saa mi IVF utiye goke ma gicopo geno. Kadi bed ango ma timere

Bed ayika ni paru migi i saa maeni. 

“Penje ango ma emito kud i bangi calu jarimbe. Saa moko ic ma timo ngo maber copo nyayu lworo i dhanu. Man sawa moko neno nyo winjo kite ma iol ku nyathin peri copo bedu rac ire. Wek ewok woko! Keth cwinye tek! Ento malu pa piny ceke Tim gin moko ci ma imito.” — MNM Baby 2023

“Pol kare, lubu paru pare konyowa. Ka emito ewec ikum yub ne, winj, penje penji, man nyuth miti. Ka enen ni ebedo ku lworo mi wecu ikum lembene Bed kende jarimbe ma timo lembe marac ikume labongo diyo cwinye ikum lembe ne.

“I andha, bedo keca man yio paru pare copo konyu. Yie kende kude kan ewacu niya eni rac. Pien etiye rac mandha.” — Mjazins2

I ajiki ne, piretek ni bedo nuti pi juwadi ma gitimo tic mi IVF kadi ango ma timere. Etiye piny maber uloyu ma icopo timu igi. Bedo ku genogen nia ibibedo nuti pi gin kadi bed ango ma timere bibedo ku the lembe madwong. 

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